Thomas Robert Woetko Jr.

In Loving Memory of Thomas "Tommy" Woetko

Thomas "Tommy" Woetko passed away unexpectedly on July 29, 2026, leaving behind a family who loved him deeply and countless friends whose lives he touched through his kindness, generosity, and love of music.

Tommy was a devoted father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, uncle and friend. Family was always at the center of his life. As "Pop" and "Grandpop," he had an incredible way of remembering birthdays and making each child, grandchild, and great-grandchild feel special and loved. His presence brought comfort, laughter, and the reassuring feeling that someone was always there when you needed him.

A true jack of all trades, Tommy could build, repair, and figure out just about anything. Whether it was fixing something around the house or teaching his sons the skills he had learned over a lifetime, he was happiest when he was helping someone else. His willingness to lend a hand and share his knowledge will be remembered by all who knew him.

Music was one of Tommy's greatest passions. Many knew him as "Rock N Tommy," the voice behind his online radio station, where he shared his lifelong love of Elvis Presley, oldies, and classic rock with a loyal community of listeners. Through music, he created friendships that reached far beyond his hometown and brought joy to people he may never have met in person.

Tommy now joins his beloved son, Thomas Woetko Jr.; his father, Thomas Woetko Sr.; his mother, Marie Woetko; and his brother, Frankie Woetko.

He leaves behind his daughters, Deana Woetko and her partner, Joshua Laflamme, and Dawn Tantillo and her husband, Jesse; his sons, David Wingler and his partner, Leah Lamendola and Kevin Wingler and his partner, Crystal Coraggio; his brother, Robert Woetko and his wife, Grace; and June Dahlquist. He also leaves behind 10 grandchildren, one great-granddaughter, and many treasured nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and great-nephews, along with extended family and friends who will miss him dearly.

Tommy will be remembered for his generous heart, his sense of humor, his steady presence, and his ability to make people feel welcome. Whether he was fixing something, sharing a favorite song, or simply spending time with family, he left an impression that will not be forgotten.

Though his voice is now silent, the memories he created, the lessons he taught, and the music he loved will continue to live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.

He will be deeply missed, forever loved, and always remembered. A private celebration of Tommy’s life will be held with family.

Services are entrusted to Jersey Shore Cremation Service, 43 Taylor Avenue, Manasquan, NJ - JerseyShoreCremation.com